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Rev. Marcy Ellen

Practice: Mediumship, Energy Healing and Reiki
Location: Colorado, USA
Deliver Method: In-person, Skype

The other side of the coin...

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Whenever a situation arises in which someone is blaming you or attacking you there is always a portion of that attack that has developed out of their own repressed fear and guilt. People project fear and guilt onto others as a way of escaping or resisting their own trials and tribulations. The ego uses the outside world as a scapegoat or a distraction. If it can keep your attention focused outwards then it can get you to avoid discovering the truth. Once someone examines their own inadequacies or shortcomings then they can accept them. By accepting them they can actually transform or transcend them. By going through this evolutionary process of healing a person becomes more compassionate through self forgiveness. Once self forgiveness is achieved the person will no longer harbor any fear or guilt which means they will no longer feel the need to attack or blame others. When someone loves and accepts themselves fully they will no longer project fear, but rather they will EXTEND love. Fear cannot exist in the presence of true and perfect love. So whenever you feel as if you are being blamed or attacked for something, know in your heart of hearts that the attack has far more to do with the attacker than it has to do with you. Remember what you send out comes back to you, so if you extend love and compassion, you will get back love and compassion.

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Rev. Marcy Ellen is the author of The Soul Truth; Reflections for the Waking Soul. She is a spiritual teacher, channel, energy healer, Reiki Master, radio host, and a writer for OM Times Magazine. She has a Master of Divinity Degree from the University of Metaphysical Sciences. She and her two children reside in Colorado.

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