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Joy Lin

Practice: Mediumship, Energetic and Spiritual Healing, Reiki Master, Card Readings
Location: Sydney, AUS & California, USA
Delivery Method: In person, Skype


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Love is just that, love.  Attachment is desire.  It is the ego holding on in the fear of letting go.  So how do you love someone without desire essentially? 


But that is not the question at hand.  What is at hand is what is the difference between the two, and there is a vast difference!  But what we ask of you is NOT to NOT love and NOT have desire!  (Wow, that was confusing to write!)


No!  Love and desire do go hand in hand, but it is the balance that distinguishes one from the other.  It is a balance to love and LET GO when the time is appropriate and still LOVE the other person without a need for them to be in your life one way or another.  It is essentially the most selfless thing in the world.  LOVE someone and let them be…whoever they are, where ever they are, even if that is not with you.  That is pure love.  For you love that person and wish nothing but the best for them.  Can it be done?  I am sure millions do it everyday and go unacknowledged in unrequited loving relationships. 


Someone out there may be purely loving you right now and you might not even know it.  But don’t feel guilty about that.  They love you and it is their gift to you.  Someone once told me… “We are not defined by who loves us, but by who we love.” 


Think about it.  Who do you love?

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Joy Lin has been involved in energetic healing and spiritual practices for several years. She has received a Certificate of Energetic Healing from International College of Healing and Metaphysics in Sydney, Australia.  She is also Reiki certified from Nature Care College in Sydney, Australia.

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